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For Spanish users they have a help-forum.
There is also DocBook mailing list in the Czech language mailto:firstname.lastname@example.org. You can subscribe to it by sending e-mail message to mailto:email@example.com, list is also accessible as news group cz.comp.text.docbook.
For German speaking users there is a German language DocBook mailing list. There is a list information page http://placebo.hpi.uni-potsdam.de/mailman/listinfo/docbook, where you can subscribe and a archive http://placebo.hpi.uni-potsdam.de/pipermail/docbook/ of recent posts.